3 BARRIERS BLOCKING YOUR CURIOSITY (And How to Break Through)
- Jared Nichols
- Jul 31, 2019
- 3 min read
Updated: May 22
When was the last time you asked a question that made people uncomfortable? If you can't remember, you might suffer from censored curiosity—a condition affecting industry leaders and stifling innovation before it can begin.
Curiosity, at its core, means asking questions that challenge how we do things—not just on grand scales but in everyday decisions and processes. Yet in today's hypersensitive environment, most of us have learned to keep our questions to ourselves.
Barrier #1: Fear of Looking Stupid
In a world of instant information, admitting you don't know something feels risky. Nobody wants to be the person who "didn't get the memo" or missed the obvious answer everyone else seems to have.
This fear keeps us from asking fundamental questions that might reveal gaps in our knowledge. But these "stupid" questions often lead to the most profound insights—they challenge assumptions everyone else takes for granted.
Breaking through this barrier requires embracing vulnerability. Start by asking one daily question that exposes something you don't understand. You'll be surprised how often others share your confusion but are afraid to speak up.
Barrier #2: Fear of Judgment
We fear being judged and being perceived as judgmental. The current social climate has created an environment where challenging established practices can be misconstrued as criticism or offense. Rather than navigate these complex waters, many simply stay silent.
This barrier is particularly powerful in organizations with strong cultures or hierarchies. Questioning "how we've always done things" can feel like questioning the people who established those practices.
To overcome this barrier, focus on the energy you bring to your questions. Approach with genuine care for the organization or community. Make it clear you're asking difficult questions because you're invested in collective success, not because you enjoy criticism for its own sake.
Barrier #3: Fear of Uncomfortable Answers
Perhaps the most significant barrier is our fear of the answers we might receive. Challenging questions often lead to uncomfortable truths that demand action. They bump against our routines and require changes we'd rather avoid.
This discomfort keeps us from asking questions that might disrupt our comfortable patterns. We intuitively sense which questions might lead to answers that demand significant change—and we avoid them.
Breaking through this barrier requires preparing yourself for transformation.
Before asking challenging questions, commit to action based on your learning. This readiness for change separates those who merely talk about growth from those who achieve it.
TAKE Action
Identify one process or assumption in your organization that hasn't been questioned recently.
Formulate three questions that challenge this status quo without attacking the people who maintain it.
Create a "safe space" conversation where team members can raise questions without fear of judgment.
Practice bringing positive energy to critical conversations—approach with genuine care rather than criticism.
True leadership means creating environments where curiosity thrives. By lifting the lid on censored questions, you unlock innovation that remains inaccessible to those who stay comfortable with the familiar.
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